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[_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)01:40 No.2720920
Tell me your secrets, /f/.
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>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)02:50 No.2720943
Omelette du fromage.
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)05:14 No.2720990
>>2720943
thats all you can say!
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)08:02 No.2721040
My best friends partner cheated on him.
She begged me not to tell tell. And hell she is good to him. And It was the one time. He dose
deserve to be happy but I need to tell him.
She'll hate me and so will he.
I'll need to tell my partner as well because when my best mates gf was cheating so was I
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)08:37 No.2721056
I'm about an 80% match with my significant other of 5 years. We work very well together.
I'm worried that the 20% of incompatibility has become a 30%, and that it's only going to grow. I
can't move out. I can't just leave the life I have. I don't know where the line is between "This
is just how life is" and "You need to get out for your own mental health".
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)08:44 No.2721059
>>2721056
Keep with it, you guys are married so work it out. honestly this is the issue with the current
generation. people cant keep the relationships, it's selfishness at best.
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)08:51 No.2721060
>>2721059
Not married, just been together for a while. It's not really selfishness, it's pretty
complicated. I was diagnosed with a disability that's only going to get worse as I age, and I
don't think she really understands what it is or how much it affects me.
That's not our only issue by any means, but it's certainly a contributing factor.
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)08:54 No.2721061
>>2721060
All you're seeing is yourself in her, I'd say that kinda selfish of you, only falling in love
with yourself. Maybe you should try understanding who she is, and loving that, instead of just
yourself.
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)09:02 No.2721066
>>2721061
I appreciate that you're trying to respond, but I think you're pretty off-base here, mate. I gave
up a huge portion of my life to support her. I see greatness in her. She's troubled, but she
deserves someone good.
I can't be selfless all the time, though, especially not while dealing with my own disability.
There's little appreciation for what I do and a lot of demand to do more, and faster. Sometimes
literally in those words.
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)09:06 No.2721070
>>2721066
That's what I'm talking about. You speak of sacrifices and demands of you. You feel as though
you're supposed to appreciate her because you have to, not because you want to. You're supporting
her because your just supporting yourself. You only think of yourself regardless of any
sacrifices or disabilities, If you really did care about her, and for who she is, you wouldn't
use that kind of language, or feel a growing gap, there would only be the need to communicate
more.
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)09:11 No.2721073
>>2721056
get out, you dont need some strangers on the internet to tell you how it goes
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)09:14 No.2721076
>>2721070
I'm barely supporting myself nowdays, though. I spent literally all of my money on moving her to
a place where her opportunities were, When she told me she didn't want to worry about me being
out of the house, I stopped job hunting and switched to being a man of the house. We survive on
loan money she receives. She's no longer interested in communicating about our issues, she wants
me to console her and then go away. What it comes down to really is that I want a pillow and she
wants a punching bag - I'm looking for someone to pour my affection into and receive affection in
return. She's looking for someone that can take all the hits she can throw and still see that
she's not a monster.(cont)
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)09:15 No.2721077
>>2721076
I've felt that this worked for the past few years, but more and more it's getting one-sided. I
truly do a lot for her, anon. This isn't just me going "Wah wah, I'm not getting anything out of
this." I'm seriously wondering where the line is between sacrificing myself for a relationship
and behaving in an unhealthy way to support something that's doomed.
Again, I appreciate that you're holding reasonable discussion on 4chan but... It just feels like
you're either projecting or not really picking up what I'm laying down.
>>2721073
At this point I'm willing to talk to anyone.
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)09:26 No.2721080
>>2721077
What do you do all day if you don't have a job? Seriously?
>> [_] Anonymous 03/18/15(Wed)09:30 No.2721082
>>2721080
Clean, prepare meals, go shopping, etc. Everything you'd imagine a housewife doing. I'll admit,
having some daytime to browse 4chan is nice, but this is not me. I want a job. I want to be
earning money. Sitting around here all day is not my idea of a good time or a comfortable living
situation.
Oh, did I mention that she decided she was asexual last year? That's a thing. There's no sexual
contact, and I'm strictly forbidden from having sexual relations with others, even through the
internet.
The more I talk about it the more I'm feeling pretty justified in not wanting to be here, to be
honest.
